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Jill Wagner

The couple chose a very sweet delivery method for their reveal.

“When I got the gender results from my doctor, they were sealed. I took them to Krispy Kreme donuts, my favorite, and had them fill the donuts with either pink or blue frosting depending on gender,” Wagner tells PEOPLE exclusively.

Adds Wagner jokingly, “For the record, we are not naming her Thor.”

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Jill Wagner and friends at her L.A. shower.Steve Erle

Jill Wagner

Jill Wagner

Jill Wagner

Wagner’s rep confirmed her happy news to PEOPLE last November.

“My husband and I had been trying for a while and I finally stopped stressing over it and made an appointment with a fertility doctor,” she revealed at the time.

“We actually found out at the doctor’s appointment that I was already pregnant. It was shocking, scary and the best feeling in the world all at once!”

Jill Wagner and Victor Webster inHearts of Winter.Farah Nosh/Crown Media United States LLC

Jill Wagner

Wagner, who is due in April, says she’s received a ton of great parenting advice thus far and is going to try and focus on doing the best she can for herself and her family.

“I think the best advice I have received in regards to parenting is ‘Your best is good enough,’ ” she says. “I think we all compare ourselves to others at one time or another. I find people love to give you ‘the best way to do this’ advice and while I appreciate all of it, I also have to remember that this is my journey and I can only domybest, not someone else’s version of that. I think when you think of it that way it alleviates a lot of stress.”

Wagner is keeping busy with work for as long as she can. Her latest Hallmark movieHearts of Winterpremieres Saturday and costars Victor Webster, her costar from 2017’sA Harvest Wedding.

source: people.com